Okay so I should have said this earlier, but this is the most appropriate way I have, to vent. And yes, I'm using a pseudonym (Jen Dee. I hope to God none of the people I know figure it out !) I'm too chicken to do otherwise. But just for the record, this blog is my tabula rasa. There's no fixed pattern to it. I just write as I go. The first few posts have the same date because well I wrote them down on paper initially, and then I just decided to blog them. Its funny how I write as if for public scrutiny. I don't intend to inform anyone of this blog. Ha. But you never know. Someone might stumble upon it. One day. If you're reading this, then Oi Matey , you found my treasure ! :) Aargh, you're a meticulous pirate. Haha.